Tuesday, November 25, 2014

Date with a stranger


"Strangers in the night
Two lonely people, we were strangers in the night
Up to the moment when we said our first hello little did we know
Love was just a glance away, a warm embracing dance away"

                                                                          - Strangers in the night - Frank Sinatra
 




Well have you ever had a date with a stranger? I know it sounds a little creepy, scary and spontaneous.
 
You might not be the most adventurous when it comes to meeting new people and as many of us might usually tend to exclude the "unknown" even from forming a part of our "probable" list. How many of you have dated people who were in your inner circles, knew you for ages and still had your heart broken? There is never a guarantee that the "known" factor is going to provide you with a buffer of secure feelings.
 
World is so fast and it seems like time never stops for hearts to heal, be ready, be so selective and pick. Time just flows by , you grow old and you might even feel the life that you wanted few years back has never come but you are left with a lot of lessons learnt and a broken heart. All the protective gear you have been wearing has not done any good but has just distant you from reality of what the world is.
 
Some of us are lucky to find the Mr/Miss Right so easily but for many of us it always is a question mark. We have our idols in our mind and every man/woman we meet, we measure them up against that we rarely get to know them. Most of the time we see them for what we desire but not for who they are. The comfort in the "known" factor plays a major role in this where we tend to believe they are "right" and even some of us are ready to be hurt if it doesn't work.
 
So my question is why not a stranger then? May be it would be an eye opener to at least know someone for who they are and be away from all the romantic idols we have in our mind. And it seems like you can even learn not to judge a book based on the cover and see someone for who they really are. Well what can be worst? You will either fall for them or they will fail you. But isn't that the case with everyone?
 
Strangers simply give you so much to look forward to from what they look to who they are. In my opinion, things can never get better than when you are in a treasure hunt. You simply analyse everything to find your ultimate destination and believe me on this, it is fun! ( I am not intending to write this for an audience of below 18, so I assume you have your brains in the right place too to ensure you don't get your self in trouble )
 
So why not just explore the world a little bit more than what you already know. You could end up being totally surprised of what you find and even the complete "strange" factor could bring in a lot of decency and respect in to your life.
 
All I have learnt for the past few years is, life is too short to plan things and plans seldom work out when it comes to relationships. Be spontaneous! Live your life! Tomorrow should never be a day with regret ! Be a little experimental ! Bring it on folks !
 
Who knows... that stranger could even be your Mr/Miss right!
 

 
 
 
 
 

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