When it feels overwhelmed by the judgements of the society, you start thinking of what matters to you the most. Some times the harsh truth is no matter how much you care about people, they will not return the same. It is natural to people to see everything as something "unacceptable" if it doesn't fit their criteria of how you should live your life.
If you buy a "bigger" house, their question would be from where you got the money...If you "achieved" something, they will always see a flaw in it...If you are in a "relationship" they will question how and why.....If you "change" they will find it not "right"......and the list goes on..
The truth is you can never please everyone around you and you shouldn't. It will just be a journey of self destruction. Some times it takes a lot to make your eyes open to this truth which will then set you free to focus just on your happiness and what you think is right.
I have heard "follow your heart" quite a bit no matter what the circumstance is because no one other than you would know what is best for you..What makes you complete..what makes you happy..It might not always be right but for a moment, it might feel right. I say go ahead and do what you feel is the right thing. There will be millions of people to say " I told you so" if something doesn't work out but be brave enough to accept the failure and move on. Life doesn't give yous econd chances always. When you get it, use it to the best you can.
Do not let the external "things" run your life because they don't live your life nor do they know what you are made of. You know your insecurities, strengths, weaknesses, low points, etc the best. Rest will always be a judgment of what you portray.
This world is a world of excuses, judgments, gossips and let downs. Trsut in your own instinct is the best favor you can do to your self. Be the guide and run the things that matter to you. Do not let things around you run your life because it will just make you dependent, more criticized and small. You have all the rights to choose what is right for you and leave the rest to the world. If they find it fascinating , they will talk about it and even if it is a failure, they will do the same. Does it make any difference to you? No it shouldn't.
Keep your head high and embrace the people who are willing to understand you and your situations rather than judge you in every step you take. Distance the people who do so because they will never be there for you. Blessed are the ones who could pick you up when you fall not who makes you fall.
Cheers to all and for new beginnings! I run my life and things don't run me...
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