ඉඩ දෙන්න සඳුනි මට; ඔබෙ දිවිය දිදුලන්න!

Surgery to the soul !

I am a woman and I am beautiful! How many of us (women) can say this out loud and not be laughed upon or frowned upon?

 

 

 

Beauty is so overrated in our society the general expectation is a woman to be "beautiful". Let's say it is a fair expectation. We never say we expect all men to be "handsome". Do we ever? I think something is strangely wrong somewhere and society needs a change!

 

Over the last few decades, the world surely has gone through so much that from photo-shopped advertisements using women to the ever growing porn industry has revolutionized the definition of "beauty" of a woman. The "exception" has now become the "normal". Somewhere in between the definition has so much narrowed down to hairless bodies and spotless faces.

 

Unfortunately, the woman by nature being a creature that needs acceptance has fallen in to the trap of wanting to feel being a part of an accepted crowd. And the things they do (including me)! Something that bothers me so much is who dictated this new definition of beauty? And what makes you think it will not keep on changing? and who knows for the better or worst?

 

So are we going to keep on changing to meet the never ending needs of probably a handful percentage of people in this world? Who would any woman try so hard, go through a lot of pain ( mind you waxing hurts..i bet botox injections do too...and the money spent on all the surgeries.. ) to be what "society" wants you to be?

 

( These thoughts worried me too much in recent past that I had to pen this down) I am a strong believer of inner beauty of a woman. It has a deeper meaning and a lasting impression. Simply you may even refer to as a beautiful soul. But how many of us do anything to be beautiful inside?Unfortunately everyone is too busy working on a pretty face.

 

I think it is high time that before its too late to voice out and start acting out to show that we are beautiful in our own way in our own skin - just the way we were born! Yes we have hairy bodies, scars that tells our story, we come in all sizes and that is what we are.

 

Ladies- this is a call out to you to start thinking of being beautiful inside to get rid of all that negativity, jealousy, infidelity, insecurities and pride. Trust be you will make a lasting impression on a lot more people (and it might make you feel a lot bigger than just leaving impressions in bed)

 

Well and if you have too much of cash and would want to get a surgery done to make your "assets" bigger and better, why not try a fast one? A SURGERY TO YOUR SOUL!

 

Let's live the change so the world will accept women for who they are - beautiful within!

 

 

She is your woman!

She is a soul on fire. Her days are exciting and she has something to celebrate every day. Nothing can bring her down. She will rise brighter tomorrow if you bring her down today. You make her cry today and her smile will light up millions tomorrow and your memories will fade away. She is independent, she is strong. She has her mind set on what she wants. She knows where she is going.

 

 

She is being hurt. She is being broken many a times. But she never stops! She will never!!

 

She has a big heart. She will love you to bits. Her care can be overwhelming and you might not know what to do with it. You might think it is too much to take but some day you will realize that her caring can never be found any where else.

 

She is hot and she has her own definition of sexiness in her. She doesnt imitate. She is her own hero. She laughs and you will want to laugh with her. She talks and her eyes will make you wonder. Her dreams will make you wonder if anyone could be so imaginative.

 

She is stubborn. Well...very stubborn. She has a say in everything. She will know what she want in life and she will fight for it. If she believes in something she will defend it no matter what, if it makes her lose herself.

 

She is a child at times. She will cry often. She will want your attention and she will have some drama in life to make sure you pay attention to her. She expects your love and she longs to be admired by you. She dresses up for you..just for your eyes!

 

She could be a tigeress where it is needed ( well there isn't anything wrong in it ladies and gentlemen! ) and she will show you that heaven is earth.

 

She is educated, smart and intelligent. She has a dream career mapped in her head. All she wants you to do is be around to listen to her chaos at work and just listen. She doesn't need your advices all the time. She is her own boss. Just hug her when she needs it and she will be fine soon.

 

She notices small things. she will know if you dont say "hi" the same way as the first day she met you. She could be peculiar all the time and that is she being herself. She is precious and she needs you!

 

This is none other than your woman. You might not see it today. You might be blind to it. You might have stayed with her for so long that you have forgotten the little details of her. She is your woman!

 

Treat her the way any woman wants to be treated as - a princess!

Dont let the curves or the softness of skin fool you!

To all men...!

 

 

Dont let the curves or the softness of skin fool you;

Us, women  were created for a purpose.

And that ain't to be house wives or just cook and serve family;

We do have bigger dreams and our own needs..

If you are planning to fight for your freedom, talk about being independent..

If you think flirting is an art of a man, and you can get away with anything that happens..

We want you to know that as women, it is same with us too..

We are sincere but if needed, we can play games..may be a lot better than you do..

We are faithful but if you want to cheat, we can cheat in style too..

We are competent but would like to share the pride in winning..

You say that we are emotional; and yes we are..

That is the same reason why we are better leaders at times..

we are closer to the people we work with..

Do not miunsderstand our independence for our attitude,

it takes a lot of strength to stand out from the rest in a world ruled by men..

We might sound arrogant but we speak for a reason.

Don't judge us by the acts of the minority..

Not all of us need flirting to get somewhere in life.

Not all of us require relationship with the boss to climb up the ladder at work..

Not all of use think beauty is the way for everything..

Not all of us waste time plotting someone's failure..

Not all of us need a man to finance us..

We are some times weak..but will always be back stronger..

We are ambitious and can take on anyone..

We might not look physically stronger but you know we bear many times the pain you can't even tolerate..

We are mothers and our blood turns to milk too..

We are born leaders and care givers..

We are so many things in one body...

We consider you supporters but we dont want to depend..

Let us live our life and make our life..

Respect us for standing on our own and let us be who we are..

Do not try to limit us to houses..or raising kids..caz we are not born to do one thing..

We can be fighters too..

Stop looking at us as we are fighting a loosing battle..

At least start it now. so there will be a better hope, better future for your kids..

Caz one day, your daughters will live this same life..

will go through what you are letting us go through today..

Change it today for her to live a better independent tomorrow!

Change it today so you can be a proud dad!